TIMES CHANGE AND SO DO WE

First of all, I really feel like I should apologise for not being as active as I used to. I know that many of you can empathise with me in this aspect, but the start of uni and work at the same time has been overwhelming and I struggle a lot to find a bit of free time on my day to day life.

I actually feel kinda sad that I’ve been working hard for years for this blog, which is my passion, and now I don’t have that much time (or time at all) to spend on it. I’m a really organised and strict person when it comes to scheduling and how I spend my time, so I can assure you’re there’s no material time I can use to even write a blog post.

Things and times change and we have to get used to them. A few days ago I wrote an Instagram caption about what I’m trying to explain here: balance. To find, not the perfect, but just balance, it’s key to live a healthy and happy life. This is actually quite a hard task since everything is continuously changing and we have to get used to then quite fast as well, but it’s not impossible.

I spend mornings at work and afternoons at uni. I only have evenings left to pamper myself and relax a bit until  I get ready to start the next day. This is all I can do from Monday to Friday, and then I have the weekend left to do nothing but enjoy some free time with my loved ones.

All of this kept me thinking about how I’m going to manage from now on to find time for the blog and everything that it involves. Time for emails, planning, photoshoots, editing, writing, checking and engaging a bit with you. It really takes so much time and effort that not many see until they have to directly deal with it.

This blog is my passion, so there’s no way on earth I’ll give up on it, but what’s obvious is that I won0t be able to upload it as often as I used to before. I also want to make sure that what I’m sharing is real quality content, which takes more time but is much more valuable. Because of that, I’ll stick to two posts a week (Mondays and Thursdays). The first one will be a fashion related one (outfit with all its details), and the second one will be more writing-focused one with a non-specific topic (could be my opinion about a certain topic, a product review, recommendations, advice, etc.).

I really hope I can work this out because so little things could hurt me more than having to give up on this blog. So I’ll work hard for it, and I hope you can support me as you’ve been doing for more than four and a half years.

Which kind of content do you want to see next? Definitely tell me so in the comments down below and I’ll be glad to read!

Love and lipstick ❤

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WHAT I’M WEARING? 

Blazer – MissyEmpire

Top – Zaful

Skort – Bershka

Sandals – Bershka

Jewellery – Sienne

First of all, I really feel like I should apologise for not being as active as I used to. I know that many of you can empathise with me in this aspect, but the start of uni and work at the same time has been overwhelming and I struggle a lot to find a bit…

30 responses to “TIMES CHANGE AND SO DO WE”

  1. It’s so lovely to read about how much you love your blog! I find it difficult to balance everything too, so I post on Wednesdays and Sundays which is so much easier than churning out content I’m not passionate about. You have a good plan so I definitely think you’ll find your rhythm, especially as you’ve been blogging for so long! Love your outfit in this post 🙂

    Anika | thebibliofleur.com

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      Exactly! It’s better to post less but better content you’re proud of! Thank you so much Anika, I’m sure you’ll manage how to deal with everything as well!

      Mireia from TGL ❤️

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  2. Quality over quantity always. Absolutely appreciate your thoughts! 🙂 💖

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      Glad to know that you agree! Thanks!

      Mireia from TGL ❤️

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  3. Your outfit is so chic! Don’t apologize for needing time to yourself!

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      Aww thank you Mariann!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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      Thank you so much Diane!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  4. I totally understand how you’re feeling. I go to school and work as well and it really is hard to keep up with a blog. Don’t let go of your passion if it is fueling you. Hang in there! ❤

    Jill
    https://jilliancecilia.com/

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      Thank you for your support Jill! We can definitely make it!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  5. Nice outfit and perfect photos!!
    Greetings.

    NEW POST IN MY FASHION BLOG!!: http://www.adrianosle.com/2019/10/renovando-mi-habitacion.html

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      Thank you so much!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  6. you look so cool in this look, Everything looks so stylish.
    New post:
    https://www.melodyjacob.com/2019/10/wearing-ripped-jeans-in-nigeria-is-mini.html

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      Aww thank you so much Melody!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  7. time management sometimes get hard and even harder when we want to take care of other stuff going on in our life and we left very less or no time for our own passion. Good to know how much you love your blog… thanks for sharing hon…you look great in all pics…❤️

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      True, but one way or another we manage to find a bit of time for our passion! Thanks lovely!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  8. Ah so true and relatable! The perfect balance is so tough to find!

    http://www.thehautefinish.com

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      Exactly! Glad you agree girl!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  9. You look stunning dear! Loved your snakeskin heels.
    Adi xx | http://www.fancycorrectitude.com

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      Thank you so much Adi! These have been my favourite sandals this last season for sure!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  10. You are looking stunning and love the pendant.
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      Aww thank you so much!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  11. Finishing uni and holding a job can be difficult but just take a slice of it at a time. I have been there! You look lovely. ❤ /M
    FASHION TALES

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      It is but if you’re really passionate about both you can definitely make it! Thanks!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  12. Finding balance is so important. You look fantastic in this outfit.

    https://www.ninakobi.com/2019/10/givenchy-poudre-premiere-loose-powder.html

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      It is key! Glad you agree Nina!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  13. I can totally related! But obviously you already work harder than I do.
    It is my first to come here. But I do like your style👍

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      We all work hard in our own business! Glad you like it!

      Mireia from TGL ❤

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  14. I love how much passion you put on your work. I tend to post on my blog on sundays,so hard balancing ..you inspire me !
    Cjay Fashion

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      It actually takes a while to find the right balance but if it’s a real passion you’ll definitely make it! Thank you so much darling!

      Mireia from TGL ❤️

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